There are many “dos and don’ts” lists for casual hookup clients online, but it doesn’t hurt to add another one to give a broader overview of what another casual hookup client considers important. This is not a list of personal dislikes, but advice and warnings about behaviors that annoy most casual hookup clients.
Be Clean
It’s very simple. Show your professional casual hookup clients the same respect you give to amateurs. Shower, shave, brush your teeth, and cut your nails. Wear clean clothes and avoid smoking before a meeting. If you are not circumcised, thoroughly clean the area under your foreskin. Also, if you have any skin disease, clean it thoroughly and let her know what it is as soon as you take off your clothes. Don’t even engage with the woman until the doctor declares you clean.
Don’t ask rude, stupid, meaningless, impatient questions, or questions you don’t want to know the answer to.
This could almost be a row in itself. We get asked questions every day that men would think would be wise to ask, but they aren’t. My pet peeve is, “Are you clean?” Think about it for a second. Do you think that high-paying call girls don’t do that? And when you’re dealing with a street hooker, do you think she’ll tell you the truth when she doesn’t? Always keep your eyes open and be as conscientious as you were when using condoms and you won’t have to waste your time with these rude and meaningless questions. Then, “What is your real name?” This is also rude and pointless.
The last category includes questions like “How many men have you met today?”, “Are you married?”, “Has anyone ever hurt you?” Your cheating partner won’t know which one is different. Even if he wants to know the answer, he might change his mind after hearing it. Therefore, it is best to avoid such questions from the beginning, and if you ask a question that the casual hookup doesn’t want to answer, don’t force her.
Act normally.
I know proper etiquette is less common than it used to be, but guys, this isn’t rocket science. Try to remember all the things your mama taught you: ask instead of demanding, say “thank you” at the end, at least open the door while still in your bathrobe, take your hat off when there’s a woman in the room, etc. You’ll be surprised how much of a difference it makes to your experience if you find yourself having a casual encounter.
Be where you said you’d be when you said you’d be there.
If you’re going for an in call, be on time and call if you’re late. When a girl comes to you, don’t go to the store, ice cream machine, reception, or ATM if you think she’s about to come. You can delay her arrival by the time you get back. And if the significant delay is your fault and not hers, don’t be a jerk if she cuts the session short. She may have other plans, but she didn’t force you to come 30 minutes later than planned. Finally, if you don’t feel right, call to cancel. If she has already left, face her as a man and pay the cancellation fee casual hookup She may have turned down your other commitments and it’s not her fault that you misplaced the ball at the last minute.
Remember that we are business women and this is our business.
You should not force or be forced to ask the cashier for money. Different girls have different ways of wanting to give you money, but we all want to give it to them in advance. You also wouldn’t expect plumbers, pest control guys, or other professionals to “hang out” with you for hours after the job they were hired to do is done. A good call girl will try to create an exciting illusion for you. Don’t shatter this illusion by forcing you to remember that we are in it for the money.
