Sex between adults is a bit of an unpleasant experience. You either love it, or you hate it. You might be someone who can’t wait to put your head between your legs and get your tongue to work… or you might think there’s nothing worse than the act. It is a struggle for many people, especially those who want to enjoy and please their partner more. They want to make you feel good, but the ways to enjoy adult sex seem almost impossible. So what can they do? Can we learn to enjoy oral sex more with adults?
Taste and Smell
Many who find adult sex enjoyable say that it is the taste and smell that becomes their biggest obstacle. Some people like the taste or smell of pussy. They find it sweet and spicy, which is a perfect combination. But not all vaginas are the same. Some have a different taste and smell, not necessarily in a good way.
Some men are convinced that adult sex can change the taste of their semen, and the same theory applies to women. It is said that adult sex changes the taste, although whether you do or not may be a bit more a matter of trial and error than anything else.
However, a good wash can make a difference. Adult sex is a natural cleansing act, so you don’t have to worry about slipping on wet tampons. Just take the time to clean up the others. It will be erotic and can relax. The critical thing to remember is that shaming him won’t change anything. It will make him more aware, making him tenser. It’s not something you can change, so maybe it’s something you must do to overcome it.
It’s starting to hurt
In the movies, adult sex always goes according to plan. We transition perfectly from kissing to foreplay (where the woman always seems to have several orgasms) to adult sex (where the man lasts forever). Then they sit next to each other on the bed, the sheet barely covering his hip since she has been carefully on the chest. Practical, right? Real life is not like that. Adult sex and the effort and work required to perform oral sex can be off-putting for some men. For example, they may find that their tongue and jaw hurt after a while.
