he other day I was greeted with an unpleasant surprise when I opened my front door. I was hoping to meet a customer I had never met before. But unfortunately, it was a former client who I had intentionally ignored.
This client was someone I had met before and had been trying to meet me again for the past two years without success. At first, I ignored his calls. After that, he called and contacted me with a new number, so I started ignoring his new number. One year later this week, he called me from another new number. I answered but didn’t recognize his voice. I asked his name thinking he was a new customer and he told me a different name. So we made an appointment and lo and behold…he showed up…!
So the question is, why do sex cam girls turn down regular customers?
Turning down regular customers might not be that common. The “love” is one-sided, such as with clients who have sexual fetishes like… or love-crazed clients who harass you into their private lives. Do not confuse this with clients who are in love with sex cam girls while respecting the boundaries and expectations of sex cam girls. As long as the boundaries are respected, sex cam girls are not bothered by the praise.
There are other unique reasons.
For example, I had a very young client who I felt was spending too much money he didn’t have (in hopes of winning my heart). I thought that since I couldn’t give him love, it would be better for him to focus on saving money for someone who would love him. I liked him as a person and as a customer, but morally I felt he should spend his hard-earned money on something else.
Of course, these unwanted sex-cam girls can be interpreted differently by different people. For me, hygiene is an absolute exclusion criterion, so I flatly refuse anyone who isn’t clean. And of course, I don’t agree to meetings with clients who can’t pay me. However, angry sex with new clients is not something I can predict. As for “rude or disrespectful” customers, I am lucky enough to have not had such an experience yet. But for many other sex cam girls who do not have the privilege to be so picky, dealing with disrespectful customers is a reality.
Generally my selection procedure was successful
There were only 3-4 men who I did not want to meet again. In general, most of the customers are relatively kind and there is nothing wrong with them. And as for the 3-4 clients, I could not meet… my rejection method was to ignore their calls and messages. Ironically, these customers that I never wanted to see again were not respectful at all.
The previous customer recently showed up under a new name but is a very polite and kindhearted person. He is even clean and professional. Yet somehow this
