When it comes to sex toys, there is no right or wrong. Intimate sex toys are both great ways to connect with your partner. While the best sex toy is up to you and your partner to decide, here are some tips on what kind of intimate sex toys are best for couples at the moment.
The situation: You just met someone.
Everyone has felt that adrenaline rush when meeting someone new. That energy under your feet is exciting! In the new romance drama “Do They like Me or Don’t like Me,” sex toys end up being a huge success for both parties. Dopamine is a chemical released in the brain when we achieve something. In this case, it’s confirmation that they like the look of you, or that we’re really compatible. The rush of victory is the perfect time to seek sexual release. Believe it or not, sex toys are the solution in situations like this. Finally, releasing energy after the anxiety of meeting new people is a very cathartic way to make a connection. It feels so good to get to know each other’s natural intense selves. No matter what you’ve been taught, there’s nothing wrong with fast and intense sex toys. Your body is already ready for this. After all, dating is really just a mating ritual. Plus, putting someone in charge of the intimate couple’s sex toys sets expectations too high when you haven’t had the chance to connect unprotected with them. Taking the time to get to know each other will help you build a more intimate relationship. So, let go and play.
Situation: You have just learned something new about each other
As we evolve as individuals, we learn new ways about ourselves and our partners. Maybe you’ve discovered a new hobby or finally found out about something from your partner’s past that they’ve kept secret for a long time. Every time we trust a loved one with something we value, it’s a great opportunity to release the energy of love.
Intimate sex toys usually involve even more vulnerability, so the follow-up is easier. In these most private and sensual moments, you’ll find the courage you need to tell your partner what feels good and what doesn’t. What you’ve recently learned outside the bedroom can give you the courage to learn something new in it too. Maybe there’s a new fetish or an interesting position you’ve wanted to try for a long time. It’s a great opportunity to enjoy some intimate loving moments with couple’s sex toys.
Situation: We just argued.
Unfortunately, in any relationship, there are times when things don’t go well. As people grow closer, it’s natural that eventually you and your partner will find areas where they are not similar. Ideally, in moments like these, you and your partner can work together to regulate your emotions and take a break to self-reflect. But once you’ve listened to each other and gotten what you need, it’s a good time to have some fun with sex toys.
The hot and angry sex toys in movies skip the important step of actually working together to solve the problem, but they understand the fun moments that can result from disagreements. Intimate moments can have such intensity that you both want to kill her or kiss her. Sex toys are a great way to balance and relieve this tension. Now is the time to cheat with bold moves and energetic actions. This might mean tossing each other in bed or kissing each other a few times “until you can’t breathe.” Reconnecting in the way you need to after an intense time of emotion will make you both feel good.
